The value of a Facebook Like
In the world of social media, and with self-proclaimed experts on it popping up everywhere (some actually full of experience, some full of… something), it’s interesting to see how people act and how they value a Facebook Like.
I have a few friends, acquaintances, web people and other on Facebook – without a doubt the most diverse contact group I have in any forum. People I played in a band with in my teens, to people I’ve set next to on a plane; people I’ve gotten to know through working with the web to friends who have no idea what the web is (but they’re nice anyway – go figure).
This means that the status updates that show up in the Facebook stream for me is of such a mixed nature, it’s entertaining and also almost a bit weird, given the violent context-switching I go through when scrolling. It also means that seeing how people react to my status updates (I generally don’t write about the web there) and experiencing how other peoples’ statuses go down, there must be an abundance to learn about human nature. A fountain of wisdom. Or something.
But one of the most interesting things is the grave misconception of how much a Facebook Like is really worth. That if you get enough Likes, it actually means you have any value as a being. That you have a valid opinion, that you really were funny or that you baking a cake/running 10 kilometers on your hands/posting a funny picture you stole somewhere makes you worth more.
So, here’s some news for you: some people (a lot, actually) click Like without even following your link or even reading what you said. Shocking, isn’t it? For you as a person, well, this might affect your self esteem, knowing that a Like isn’t someone genuinely agreeing with what you said, but, at most, a courteous smile for a second.
And if you use Facebook for business reasons, it’s all about metrics. Numbers to prove that you matter. In that case, I’d say play the game and use it for what it is. Go for the low-hanging fruit: if the status update is too serious or requires, you know, making a stand or something, it seldom gets popular (if that’s not the entire project/product cause, naturally). Unless you can get the first five likes or so, to bump it up in people’s Facebook streams.
Rather go for short clear messages where people instinctively feel something (hopefully positive) about it. Maybe by relying on Thruthiness. 🙂
It’s just Likes
In the future, if/when you use Facebook, I do hope you get many Likes! But don’t take a bunch of them, or lack thereof, for any kind of evidence of quality or popularity.
It’s just a Like. No more, no less.
*likes this blogpost*
Just today I talked to a young guy who already grew up with the Internet in full bloom, and he said to me “sure I’m on Facebook – but the more I read through this medium, the more I realize it’s not about being social, it’s about egocentric display of self-value. It’s not about interaction and communication with specific other people, it’s about telling the world about you, and only you.”
I wonder what this means for the value of Likes…
(As a note, I’m an outsider on all of this, I never really was a social network person, and I’m not on any of those centralist silos such as FB, G+ or Twitter – I even need to force myself to be active on Diaspora just out of support for decentralized systems.)
Excellent point! And yes, I agree. While some peoples’ usage of Facebook (or any other social network) can be social indeed, I’m certain that there is indeed a lot of ego-boosting as well.